How to start a letter when the page is blank
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Most people stall on the first line because they are trying to sound like a letter-writer instead of themselves. Open the way you would if the person walked into the room: with one real thing, like where you are, what you were just thinking about, or why you are writing today. The rest tends to follow once the first sentence is honest.
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Ways to begin
“I've started this letter three times now, so I'm just going to begin and not tidy it up.”
“I was making coffee this morning and thought of you, which is why I'm writing instead of texting.”
“There's something I've meant to tell you for a while, and it's easier to say on paper.”
What to write
1. Begin with something that is true right now: the weather, the room you're sitting in, or the thing that made you think of them. A concrete detail sets a warmer tone than a general greeting.
2. Skip the apology for writing late or badly. Lines like 'sorry I'm not good at this' use up your opening on nothing. Say why you're writing instead.
3. Pick the tone before the first word. Write it as if speaking aloud to this person, and if you wouldn't say a phrase to their face, leave it out.
Frequently asked questions
Q. Do I have to start with 'Dear'?
No. 'Dear' is fine for a relative or a formal note, but with a friend or partner you can start with their name, a nickname, or go straight into the first sentence. Use whatever you would say if you were calling them.
Q. Can I write my letter first and send it later?
Yes. Write it, seal it with sealing wax and set an opening date if you like. The letter unlocks at 00:00 on that day. It travels as one link through any messenger, text or email, and the recipient opens it in a browser with no app and no sign-up. Writing, sealing and sending are free.